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A Year of Gifts

Gift of Christmas Magic

12/23/2018

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I admit I’m a bit of a nut when it comes to Christmas. I love the decorations, the music, the corny holiday shows… The list goes on and on.

But despite how much I love the season, I head into December with a tiny knot of dread in the pit of my stomach and usually breathe a sigh of relief when it’s over. I suspect I’m not alone. Because let’s admit it—celebrating the season can be a lot of work! We often try to accomplish more than we have time for and end up scrambling at the last minute.     

Everyone’s idea of “celebrating” looks different. I suspect much of how we celebrate has its foundation in how we each experienced the holidays while growing up. Not always, but often.

For us, Christmas meant tons of decorations, lots of family time, attending Mass at our beautiful hometown church, and gift exchanges. We were lucky to grow up in the same town as our grandparents. Even as they grew old and frail, we’d be sure to bring them to Mom and Dad’s to celebrate with everyone. When our children were young, we were blessed to have four generations around the dinner table, enjoying the same menu that had been served for years.

Many people struggle over the holidays. Joy can be hard to find when you are missing someone or going through difficult times. I suspect all of us will have years where the lights don’t seem to shine quite as brightly. Our heart isn’t in it.

Maybe those are the times when we need the magic of the holidays the most. 
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What if we lower our expectations and find joy in the little things? Forget about trying to make everything perfect. I bet no one will notice if you don’t bake that fourth kind of cookie. Or if they do, they’ll appreciate the treats even more if you bake them next year. If you want to get cards out but it’s looking like they won’t get delivered until after New Year’s, send them anyhow. It's never too late to say ‘hello' and let people know you're thinking of them. Slap some wrapping paper on those last few presents you haven’t yet gotten around to and don’t worry if the edges don’t quite meet or there isn’t a ribbon in sight.

Instead of fretting about those pesky details you haven’t gotten to yet, brew your favorite cup of tea or coffee and put on some soft Christmas music. Munch on one of the cookies you did get around to baking or have an Oreo. Pull out an old photo album and enjoy a trip down memory lane. Better yet, any chance you have some old videos from Christmas past? How fun would it be to watch those?

If Christmas arrives before you get to the end of your ‘to-do’ list, let it go. Think back to some of your favorite things about the holidays and do those instead.
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Now it’s time for true confessions: that last batch of cookies, a few unwrapped gifts, and a pile of cards are all waiting for me on the kitchen island and Christmas Eve is only a day and a half away. I’m trying to remember to have fun.

Last night was a great start. We enjoyed a wonderful dinner with old friends. All of our kids were with us, and we even recreated an old photo of them all, initially taken years ago. Suffice it to say sitting on each other's laps wasn't as awkward when they were eight!

Those are the experiences we should strive for over the holidays. Time with family and friends, making more memories. Because there will be times when those memories will keep us warm.

And in the tiny open spaces over the next few days, I vow to make time for the following:
  • A drive through our neighborhood to enjoy all the pretty Christmas lights
  • I’ll take off my glasses and squint at the Christmas tree, enjoying the fuzzy beauty of my surroundings (if you are blessed with good eyesight this is one area where you are missing out, but if you've done this before, you'll know what I mean!)
  • Walk over to the sledding hill with the kids, even if its cold outside
  • Watch the old, animated Rudolph and Frosty movies
  • Enjoy a Tom & Jerry hot drink with only a splash of brandy (I don’t like it if I can taste the alcohol)
  • Sit by the fireplace and read one of the two new Christmas novels I ordered but haven’t glanced at yet   
  • Coerce my family into playing a game of whist

Even thinking about doing these little things makes me smile and I can feel my anxiety over what isn’t yet done slip away.

And during that space of time between Christmas and New Year’s, I’ll take some time to reflect on this past year and look ahead to the next. For me, it’s been a year of milestones, growth, struggling to acclimate to life without my own mom, and hope for the future. As each new year starts, I love to think about the possibilities and then plan how I want to turn some of those possibilities into realities.

But for now, the time has come to relax and enjoy the magic of the season. I invite you to make the most of this brief window of time to feel the love of family and friends, both near and far, and even if you can now only visit them in your memories. Find some quiet time, a favorite chair, and give yourself permission to feel the magic of the holidays.

​Wishing you the very best,   Kim  

6 Comments
Jeanie
12/23/2018 08:39:12

Enjoy your comments. I so enjoy Christmas especially if all family members can be home. We have simplified our gift giving. I put Christmas decorations up early because I enjoy them so much. I use to worry what people would think . Not any more. I realize how blessed I am to have my loved ones. Love the laughter. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

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7/31/2019 12:40:44

Christmas is my favorite holiday! I always loved seeing the holiday decorations and passing by a house to see a tree lit up in the window. It brings so much joy and warmth to my heart. Even as I grow older, I get to see that childlike joy in my nieces and nephews as they ask me to help them with their Christmas list and makes sure everyone in the house knows not to dare touch the elf on the shelf or he will lose his magic. Christmas is definitely the season for giving, caring, loving, kindness, and sharing.

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Kim
8/6/2019 22:35:08

So true! I'm actually writing a Christmas story now and I'm searching my heart for all the magic of Christmas, even though it's early August!

Thank you for your timely comment to help me find my "Christmas spirit", so far outside of the actual time of the season.

Kim
12/23/2018 09:07:26

Your comment about putting up decorations early made me laugh! We do the same thing. This year we were two weeks before Thanksgiving! I'm sure some people think we are crazy but I want to enjoy them as long as possible and it takes a lot to get them all up. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you as well!

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Bev
12/31/2018 15:07:25

I just finished reading your Celia’s gifts books on Kindle. I enjoyed them so well that I ordered them in paperback for my 85 year old mother to read, too. I welcome any Christmas books you might suggest. I know Christmas Day has passed, but I’m not ready to let it go yet. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

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Kim
1/4/2019 23:06:26

Hi Bev,

I'm sorry I somehow missed your comment until now! Thank you for your kind words and I am delighted you enjoyed my books. I am honored that you would share them with your mom.

I love reading Christmas books! Because it is such a hectic time, I usually stick to a little bit shorter books. I really enjoy Richard Paul Evans' holiday novels. They are small, beautiful hardback books that also look pretty sitting out during the holidays. I'm part way through The Noel Diary now. If you haven't read his work, I think you'd like it.

By the way, I plan to include a holiday novel in my Celia's Gifts series as well. I'm so excited to get started on it (but first I need to finish book 3)!

Thank you again for reaching out and Happy New Year!

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