Were you lucky enough to see the pure joy reflected on the faces of the US Women’s hockey team when they won gold at the Olympics? Or Shaun White’s reaction when he won gold on the Halfpipe? If you didn’t, go find the video. You don’t want to miss it. I guarantee it will make you smile.

The Olympic Games bring tremendous highs and tremendous lows. Are those emotional extremes part of the appeal for the millions of people tuning in to watch? Where else can you find almost 3,000 incredibly dedicated individuals all in one place, pursuing what is likely one of their biggest life goals? Many have given up literally years of their lives for the potential to win a medal and have a few minutes of fame. Of course some will enjoy the spotlight for much longer, but there are 102 events in 15 different sports, some of which I’ve never even heard of until this year. If they win, the eyes of the world will be upon them as they stand on the podium, but few will remember their names when the games conclude.

We were amazed by the magnificently talented women ice skaters as they competed their long programs on Thursday night. We felt their pain when they fell, sometimes more than once, and know they had to feel shattered inside. Despite the pressure and crushing disappointment, no one quit. Think about that for a minute. Every single one dug deep and finished her program. That takes a level of commitment and, let’s be honest, sheer guts that most of us could only dream of possessing. I admire the ones who give their all and come up short as much as the ones that take home a medal. They are all winners. Women’s figure skating is only one example. You will witness both the elation of winning and the devastation of defeat in each event.

My hope for the athletes is that every single one of them, regardless of how their competitions turned out, goes home with a sense of joy and wonder to have had the opportunity to represent their countries and thousands of athletes back home.

Most of us will never be any closer to the games than our televisions, at least I know I won’t be! So what can we take away from this experience?

• There is no guarantee of success, no matter what goal you pursue. Pursue it anyway.
• You have to give things up to focus on your passions. You are either all in or you’ve already decided to settle. You get to choose.
• Success is about so much more than whether or not you come out on top at the end of your journey. We hear it all the time but it never hurts to remind ourselves – success is found in the journey.

 So if you stumble and fall in the pursuit of what makes your soul sing, get up, brush yourself off, and keep going. Don’t quit. Don’t worry if you shed a few tears. What matters is you don’t quit.

Stay patient and trust your own  journey,    Kim
 

I consider myself an introvert, but the trouble with labels like this is they can be too constrictive. I love solo work. Writing requires stretches of uninterrupted “alone” time. A large portion of my day job is also solitary work.

This week felt different for me. I was blessed to take part in many different types of conversations and enjoyed them all.

I had the opportunity to give a book talk at a local retirement community on Monday afternoon, something I enjoy doing and a great example of where a label I’ve given myself doesn’t always fit. I enjoy speaking in front of a group, especially when the topic is something I’m passionate about. Afterward, I spoke individually with some of the attendees. One delightful woman shared how she’d been writing devotionals for years, inspiring many through her ministry. She admitted she doesn’t do much writing anymore. I encouraged her to start again. The world needs more positive inspiration. Another woman warned me reading is losing its appeal in today’s world of movies and computers, insinuating I’m wasting my time writing books. I didn’t take offense. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions but I did feel bad for her. It can’t be fun, going through life feeling inclined to dim other people’s light.

On Tuesday evening I was treated to a delightful dinner and conversation with two new friends. Their book club read my novel and wanted to discuss it with me. While I thoroughly enjoyed our discussion about the book, I was inspired by the stories they shared as the conversation evolved. They each talked about the stages they are at in their own lives and shared some inspiring projects they and their grown children are pursuing. It was a reminder to me of how much we all have in common but, at the same time, how unique everyone’s individual stories are when we take the time to listen and to share.

Sticking to my goal of taking a bit more “me” time in 2018, I spent Thursday afternoon at a local event called “Beyond Possible” hosted by an incredibly talented and motivating speaker and coach by the name of Teresa Lewis. Teresa led us through an afternoon of lively group discussion coupled with quiet reflection time. A few people knew each other, but for the most part, it was a room full of strangers. Sharing was encouraged and I could feel the positive energy rising in the room as the afternoon progressed. This was my kind of group! Despite challenges and setbacks, all of these people felt compelled to make some part of their life better. Find people like this in your own local community. Spend time with people that understand life can be hard but it is within our power to do things to make improvements.

Teresa shared many wonderful ideas and concepts, too many to mention here, but one list related to mindset really resonated with me. She talked about a team that embarked on an extensive study to try to determine what sets happy and successful people apart. Their work resulted in the following seven key mindsets:

1. Everything is Possible
2. Passion First
3. We are Connected
4. 100% Accountable
5. Attitude of Gratitude
6. Live to Give
7. The Time is Now

While we discussed each of these mindsets throughout the afternoon, I want to dig deeper and will follow Teresa’s suggestion to read “The 7 Mindsets to Live your Ultimate Life” by Scott Shickler and Jeff Waller.

If you have the opportunity to attend local events meant to inspire and encourage, please do so. The small investment of your time and money will be so worth it. If you would like to find out more about Teresa and her journey, check out her website at the link below. 

In addition to my book related work and self-development efforts this week, I was also lucky enough to spend time with friends on two different evenings. It is amazing how the conversation flows when you get a group of women together, whether it’s around the dice tables at Bunco or following a nice dinner when the guys are out in the garage making deer sausage.

Connecting with others feeds our souls. My post today isn’t meant to be a rehash of a full week but rather a reminder to us all to make time for real conversations, those that go deeper than the superficial small talk. Remember:

“Sometimes the greatest adventure is simply a conversation” by Amadeus Wolfe

The world is full of wonderful people out there, find the time to get out and visit with them.   Kim