Happy New Year everyone!

As one year ends and another begins, I love to sit back and reflect on things. How did the year now ending “feel” to me? What am I proud to have accomplished? What was lacking and what would I like to do differently in the upcoming year to change this going forward?

I try to keep in mind the following quote used by visionary people like Henry Ford and Tony Robbins:

                                              If you keep on doing what you’ve always done, you will keep
                                                                       getting what you’ve always gotten.
 
So…we need to change. Change our mindset. Change a few of the things we’ve always done that ultimately hold us back from living the life we want to live. I don’t know about you, but if I don’t seek out fresh ideas, I sometimes want to change something but I don’t know how or where to start.

There are so many books out there that can give us fresh perspectives and ideas. I love to read and my bookshelves are full of great books. I thought it would be fun to look over the titles again, pull out the ones I remember that truly inspired me the most and share a list of some of my favorites. Picking favorites was harder than I expected. Eventually, I did select a variety of titles that touch on two different key topics.

Mindset

• The Slight Edge, Secret to a Successful Life by Jeff Olson
  • Wow! A short, easy read with a huge impact on my personal thought process. Makes a fabulous graduation gift too.
• Find Your Extraordinary, Dream Bigger, Live Happier, and Achieve Success on Your Own Terms by Jessica Dilullo Herrin
  • A wonderful book about finding your own happiness on your terms with the balance you desire. I’ve loaned this one to friends.
• The Secret by Rhonda Byrne
  • My introduction to the Law of Attraction. Opened my mind to the idea. Great place to start (but it’s only a start).
• Successful Women Think Differently by Valorie Burton
  • Picked up this little gem in an airport gift shop. Short easy read I refer back to often.
• Feel the Fear…and Do it Anyway by Susan Jeffers, Ph.D.
  • I admit it. I can be a chicken. This short book reminds me that it’s ok to be afraid. Fear is a normal emotion and there are ways I can push through it and pursue my goals despite clammy hands and butterflies.
• Living Forward, A Proven Plan to Stop Drifting and Get the Life You Want by Michael Hyatt & Daniel Harkavy
  • Another relatively short book packed with powerful messages. I suspect we are all guilty of “drifting” at times. Read this book!
• The Success Principles by Jack Canfield
  • Who doesn’t love the messages of Jack Canfield? It’ll take you longer to work your way through this book but it’s worth it. Maybe review one or two principles a week from the book, take time to digest the information ... see how a year can change your life.

Career and Finances

• The Millionaire Messenger, Make a Difference and a Fortune Sharing Your Advice by Brendon Burchard
  • Thought provoking. Everyone has knowledge they could share with others. Gets you thinking about how you might go about actually doing it.
• The One Minute Millionaire, The Enlightened Way to Wealth by Mark Victor Hansen & Robert G. Allen
  • Unique structure to this book and full of great ideas. Pages on the right-hand side are written from the view point of a fictional heroine with lesson details on the left-hand side. Two books in one.
• Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert T. Kiyosaki with Sharon L Lechter
  • Reading this book years ago opened my eyes to so many more possibilities in my career than the life I was living. Can be life altering if you’re open to it.

 
You may have noticed none of the books in my list are fiction (other than part of “The One Minute Millionaire”) even though I love to read and write fiction. Most fiction books are written strictly to entertain. Of course, there are exceptions. Humans have used storytelling to share wisdom throughout the ages.   

Honestly, I loved working story lines into my first book “Whispering Pines” that offer inspiration to readers. My editor had me cutting parts where I got a too preachy! My goal in my novels is to both entertain and to hopefully get people thinking about how they might be able to apply some of the lessons my characters learn in the story to their own lives.  A little soul searching never hurt anyone!

Does anyone else have some favorite books you would care to suggest? I’ve committed to reading at least one new fiction and one new non-fiction book a month during 2018. Honestly, I would love to read multiple books a week but I want to leave plenty of time for writing this year.
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May you all start this New Year out strong and strive to live your best life.   Cheers! Kim

It’s been an interesting year full of new experiences. As we near the end of 2017, I plan to find some quiet time during the week between Christmas and New Years to sit down and decide what I plan to accomplish in 2018. Not just what I “want” to accomplish or what I’d “like” to accomplish. I’ve been down that path before. 2017 taught me that we can accomplish so much more when we truly focus. I’m no longer satisfied to pursue my dreams “someday”. Someday needs to become today.

 A beautiful journal with an embossed cover bearing the quote “some pursue happiness, others create it” usually sits on a shelf in my home office. Yesterday, I threw it in my travel bag while packing to come home for Christmas. Inside is a list of questions I recorded in the journal a year ago. I honestly can’t remember if these were questions I dreamed up or if I ran across them somewhere and simply appreciated the wisdom behind them enough to write them down. Regardless, the questions are a great place to start when deciding what I plan to accomplish in 2018 and I wanted to share them with you. I hope they give you some things to think about too. I would love nothing more than to help you create your own happiness in the coming year.

1. What did I dream about becoming when I was a child?  
2. What would I regret not doing, being or having in my life?
3. What activities make me lose track of time?
4. If I had the opportunity to teach something, what would it be?
5. What is my greatest accomplishment so far?
6. What does a perfect life look like to me?
7. What would I be doing if I had more money than I could ever spend?

Every single one of us would answer these questions in different ways. How we answer them also evolves over time. We all have our own unique definition of what “happiness” means to us. This is so important to remember. Embrace your uniqueness. Take the time to figure out what makes you happy and then search for ways to incorporate those things into your everyday life. Often it’s the little things that give us the most joy and take much less effort in comparison to the joy and fulfillment we receive when we incorporate them into our lives. Then again, sometimes it’s the big, scare-the-hell-out-of-us things we need to pursue. Plan for both the big and the little things, mix things up, find something to smile about every day, and spread joy to others.

For some strange reason, I love even-numbered years. I’m promising myself 2018 will be a year to remember. Some things I plan for now will happen because I will decide to do them, put a plan in place, and follow through on the plan. Life will also intervene, as it always does, and some things will shift as I move through the weeks and months ahead and may not come to fruition. But I love the quote by Les Brown – “Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it you will land among the stars.”

​I’m also a firm believer we can grow and learn from others and one of my favorite ways to do that is by reading amazing books. Next week I’ll share some of my favorites with you. If you have any suggestions of books you’ve found helpful in pursuing your own vision of a better life, please share!

Wishing you a blessed holiday and some quiet time for your own reflection - Kim